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Discover the 7 warning signals of "highly insecure" people and how to handle them

By: April Carson

In today's world, being insecure is a normal part of life, but it can be taken to the extreme in certain individuals. These “highly insecure” people may display several warning signals that indicate their level of insecurity. Knowing what these warning signs are and having an understanding of effective strategies for handling them can help you to better interact with these individuals.

The 7 warning signals of highly insecure people are:

1) Perfectionism: Highly insecure individuals often strive for perfection in all aspects of their lives and can be extremely critical of themselves when they fall short.

2) Self-doubt: Insecure individuals may battle with self-doubt, questioning their own abilities and feeling like they’re not good enough.

3) People-pleasing: Highly insecure people may put others’ needs before their own in an effort to be liked and valued by others, even if it means sacrificing their own well-being.

4) Criticism Sensitivity: Insecure individuals are often very sensitive to criticism and may take even the smallest of criticisms personally.

5) Inability to Take Risks: Highly insecure people often fear failure, so they avoid taking risks and trying new things that could potentially lead to failure.

6) Low Self-Confidence: Having low self-confidence is a common trait among insecure people who may think that they’re not good enough or smart enough.

7) Need for Approval: The need for external validation and approval is a major warning signal of insecurity, as insecure individuals often rely on others to define their worth.

If you encounter someone displaying these warning signals, understanding the underlying causes of their insecurity can go a long way in helping you to handle the situation effectively. Some strategies for managing highly insecure individuals include being understanding and compassionate, focusing on positive feedback, avoiding criticism, and redirecting the conversation to focus on the individual’s strengths.

Empathy is key when dealing with insecure colleagues. Avoid negative thoughts and choose compassion for a more productive work environment. Remember, no one is perfect and everyone struggles with insecurity from time to time. With the right strategies and a compassionate attitude, you can help an insecure individual work through their issues.

It's essential to strike a balance between kindness and firmness when helping someone in need. Although it's essential to maintain a positive attitude, don't let your compassion be mistaken as pity. Insecure individuals often react without delving deeper into the situation, leading to unhelpful behavior. Learn how to provide support while being firm to help loved ones overcome their challenges.

When dealing with highly insecure individuals, it's also important not to accept their excuses for their behavior. While it may seem compassionate to let them off the hook, it will only perpetuate their insecurity and make it easier for them to stay stuck in their ways. Offer them gentle guidance, and help them to recognize their strengths and capabilities.

By understanding the warning signs of insecurity and having an idea of how to handle them, you can better navigate your interactions with highly insecure people. With patience and empathy, it’s possible to create a positive environment for everyone. Being aware of these warning signals is essential for productive relationships with those who demonstrate them.

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April Carson is the daughter of Billy Carson. She received her bachelor's degree in Social Sciences from Jacksonville University, where she was also on the Women's Basketball team. She now has a successful clothing company that specializes in organic baby clothes and other items. Take a look at their most popular fall fashions on

To read more of April's blogs, check out her website! She publishes new blogs on a daily basis, including the most helpful mommy advice and baby care tips! Follow on IG @bossbabymav



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